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No Teacher is an Island

Teaching is one of the hardest things you will ever do.

I’ve spent the last nine years in the classroom and every day presents its own unique set of challenges. Working with 8th graders? Pile on some more challenges! Academically undeserved student population?? More challenges. Students who have experienced trauma???

Well, I’m sure you get the picture. How do you cope when you are drowning in a sea of challenges in a profession that is already so isolating? If you’re asking me, the answer is in a daily “triage” with your team(s). I wouldn’t have survived as a first year teacher with the tremendous amount of support I received from teachers and administrators at my school. No teacher should feel like they are on an island, and every teacher deserves to be supported by their team.

Over the nine years I’ve been at my school, I have had the opportunity to provide “triage” support to my colleagues. At the end of hard day in the classroom, it is good to have someone to help you unpack and regroup for the next day. It is even better if this person is an educator on your team since they teach the same students and understand your perspective.

This blog is my attempt to capture and record some of this wisdom to widen the scope of teachers that I can help.

tri·age
/trēˈäZH/
the process of determining the most important people or things from amongst a large number that require attention.

‘Tis the (cold and flu) Season

It would appear that over the past week my school has officially entered cold and flu season. My grade level’s attendance was around 90% for the week (and we are consistently around 98%), one of the teachers on my team was out for 2 days, and my eldest daughter finally caught the bug that has been passed around 2nd grade on Thursday evening by way of projectile vomiting her dinner. What a time to be alive.

According to the CDC, flu season usually starts around late October and peaks between December and January. Ask most veteran teachers, and they would tell you that this corresponds with the most challenging part of the school year, where the back-to-school honeymoon period has worn off, days are literally getting shorter (Thanks, daylight saving time!), and tensions run at an all time high.

It’s best to be proactive during this time of year, so I have curated my top 3 tips for staying healthy during cold and flu season.

  1. Help support your immune system by maintaining healthy eating habits. It’s easy to start slacking on the meal prep and rely on not-so-healthy (yet more comforting) options when the weather gets colder, but resist this urge to help your body be prepared to fight any nasty germs. This can be accomplished in a variety of ways from meal prepping, to “eating the rainbow,” to taking vitamin supplements, to avoiding junk food. I try to make sure my lunch bag is filled with healthy-ish snacks to prevent trips to the vending machine, and I always keep a box of Emergen-C in my desk drawer. There are always small healthy eating wins we can plan for that will have BIG impacts when the germs are coming at us from all angles.
  2. Allow your body to rest and recharge. The CDC recommends that adults get at least 7 hours of sleep each night, but as a teacher and single parent, I’m not even close to that during the weeknights. Since I started teaching, I have learned that “rest” doesn’t always have to equate to sleep. During this dark part of the year, I try to take a day of “rest” on the weekend where I don’t do any school-related tasks. My never-ending To Do List will be waiting for me and I feel more balanced and productive when I set clear working-hour boundaries over the weekend. Define what “rest” means for you and then allow yourself to take a break.
  3. Schedule self-care throughout the season. The term “self-care” sounds cliche, but being aware of our mental, emotional, and physical state while proactively taking care of our needs is more than necessary. Especially during this stressful time of year it is important to be deliberate in taking care of your mental, emotional, and physical state. I make time to listen to an informative podcast or a chapter of an audio book to take care of my mental state. I make sure to journal (at the least) to decompress after a stressful day at school to take care of my emotional state. I maintain my exercise regime (and bring my gym back to school daily) to take care of my physical state. The goal is to find out what works best for you!

Use a double-dose of hand sanitizer for good measure. Hopefully these tips are helpful as you navigate another week of teaching. Please share what your top 3 tips for staying healthy in cold and flu season would be in the comments below.

Next week we’ll look at the dilemma of productivity over long breaks as Thanksgiving break is fast approaching.

Ms. Hayesie’s Top 10

This quick post will hopefully introduce you to who I am as a person and educator.

  1. 👩🏽‍👧🏽‍👧🏽
    I am a single mother of 2 rambunctious daughters. Becoming a parent has definitely given me a new perspective on being an educator.
  2. 🌱
    I don’t have a green thumb but I have been working really hard on NOT killing plants. I am currently on an 18 month streak for indoor plants and a 1 month streak for outdoor plants.
  3. 🤣
    Laughter truly is the best medicine. I try to find a silver lining of humor (and sometimes irony) in even the most dire situations.
  4. 🌞
    Seasonal affective disorder is real. Sunshine brings me joy and I miss it during the winter months. I’m seriously considering investing in one of those sunlight simulator light boxes so I can get my sunshine in the winter!
  5. 🍽️😋
    I love food. I love to cook. I love to eat at new restaurants and have new culinary experiences. I love to introduce my daughters to different cultures through the lens of their food.
  6. 🎨
    I love to create. I haven’t made it a priority since becoming a parent, but my children love to craft and create and they have helped me regain this part of my self.
  7. 📚
    I love to learn about new things, and love reading and I am sooooo thankful for the advent of audio books and podcasts, because these methods of consuming new content fit my lifestyle a little better these days.
  8. 👩🏽‍🏫
    I am a fourth-generation educator. My father was a high school science teacher and then administrator. My grandfather was an elementary teacher and then an administrator, and my great-grandmother had 14 children and prepared them all for college during the Jim Crow era.
  9. ♻️
    I am a hippie at heart and do all that I can to help reduce my impact on the Earth.
  10. ❤️
    I truly believe in the power of love and relationship. I try to align my actions so that I am operating in love every day, in every interaction. You never know what impact a seemingly random interaction will have on someone else. This is a great responsibility.
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